There are moments in a person’s life that help define them.
Completing the Patriot Half Iron has helped me learn that I have the fortitude to work towards and accomplish long term goals that may initially seem rediculous and unattainable. It’s taught me the value of taking things one step at a time and letting the seemingly little victories add up to something greater. It’s shown me if you really want to find out, you’re probably a stronger person than you think you are.
This morning I was on my way to work and there was an accident on Main Street in Stoneham. It happened just two cars in front of me. I’ll spare you the setup, but a sedan plowed into the side of a minivan at about 25 miles per hour. The minivan then kept going into someone’s yard and hit a tree - or a wall - I’m not really sure, but it was something hard enough to make a second ‘crash’. Almost immediately, the other cars started making their way around the scene and continuing on down the road. I, on the other hand, immediately pulled over, started calling 911 and ran across the street to check on everyone.
It’s not that I thought I could be particularly helpful. As Dee knows, I’d be much more likely to throw up on someone who’s bleeding than know how to stop it. But I knew that I had to be there. It’s the right thing to do. Yet all the other cars kept going by. One guy stopped, but when he saw I was there and on the phone he left.
Fortunately, everyone appeared to be ok. The sedan’s airbags deployed and the driver was out and walking around, though slightly stunned. The driver of the minivan had a couple bushes pinned against her door and didn’t seem too interested in climbing out through the other side. She said she was alright. I didn’t actually see how the accident occured or who was at fault, so I didn’t stay as a witness. I finished up my call to 911, double checked on everyone and went on my way. And in what was almost a serious twist of irony, I came very close to getting hit while pulling back onto the road by someone who was gawking at the scene - and not stopping.
This kind of thing has happened to me four times now. Once when I got into an accident myself , and the most recent being last winter, when a car on 95 in the middle of a snowstorm made a late run at an exit ramp, missed and did a few spins before jumping a barrier and plowing into a highway sign. I pulled over, called 911 and ran to check on the woman (who appeared to be either drunk or in shock). Again, she was ok. But only I and one other guy stopped, when it looked like it could have been pretty serious.
The accident this morning was the kind of thing that you wonder how you’ll react to. And after having the same reaction on four different occasions, I’ve learned that I’m the guy who stops, even though he knows he probably can’t do anything. That wasn’t always me… but it is now.